In this episode of Dialing Out — The OB2B Podcast, Dominka talks with Nina (Project Manager at OB2B) about the lived reality of women in B2B sales. From IT, logistics, and manufacturing where most decision-makers are still men, they unpack what actually helps: empathy, clear boundaries, and preparation.
You’ll hear where female strengths shine (detail-work, listening, patience), what’s just a stereotype, and a rapid “myth” game covering cold calls, emotions, CRM vs. gut feel, and whether closing can be learned. Practical, grounded, and no fluff.
Read Time
6 minutes
We discuss
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Decision-maker landscape in IT, logistics & manufacturing (why it’s mostly male)
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Where empathy and listening give you an edge (and where they don’t)
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Project prep: details, pacing, and how women often set the tone
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Cold calling: voice, patience, and persistence without pushiness
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Boundaries vs. “people pleasing” — being kind and direct
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Handling inappropriate client outreach professionally
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Collaboration habits: asking colleagues for input early
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Mothers in sales: flexibility, home office, and why sales can fit
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Healthy competition without commission-heavy models
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CRM notes that capture “how the call felt”
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Myth-busting: “Women have it easier on the phone” and other tropes
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Directness: why many women are more direct than assumed
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“No interest” ≠ end of conversation — using patience to reopen
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Closing is learnable (without manipulation)
Show Notes
The reality on the ground (DACH B2B)
Most decision-makers Nina speaks with are men, especially in IT/logistics/manufacturing. Inside teams, there’s often at least one woman who helps move things forward behind the scenes.
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Decision-maker ≠ only gatekeeper; supportive women in the chain often accelerate deals.
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Female presence in kick-offs can shift tone and trust, especially over time.
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At OB2B, sales roles skew female — a “bubble” compared to the wider market.
Why empathy matters (and where it doesn’t)
Empathy and patience help understand needs faster and build rapport, but they’re not a silver bullet.
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Listening well surfaces the “why” behind objections.
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Balance warmth with clarity on goals and next steps.
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Competence still wins — empathy amplifies, it doesn’t replace.
Project preparation: details & pacing
Women on the team often anchor the details and cadence during onboarding.
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Early accuracy (lists, scripts, targeting) prevents downstream friction.
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Direct, early feedback keeps momentum without sugarcoating.
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Rapport matures into efficiency once roles and expectations settle.
Cold calls: voice, patience, persistence
Female voices can help on first contact, but outcomes hinge on skill and timing.
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Patience beats pressure: give prospects time and re-approach thoughtfully.
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“Luck” exists — right person, right day — but consistency creates more “luck.”
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Persistence with respect: try again later rather than forcing it now.
Boundaries, “people pleasing,” and being direct
Kindness and directness can coexist; boundaries prevent burnout.
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State goals and constraints clearly; avoid over-accommodating.
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Use “positive–constructive–positive” (sandwich) for hard feedback.
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Direct ≠ harsh; it saves time and earns respect.
Handling “private” outreach & staying professional
If a client crosses lines (e.g., private messages), keep it professional.
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Ignore or deflect with humor; keep work channels for work.
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Don’t let it define your value — bring conversations back to outcomes.
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Teams should back each other up and set norms.
Mothers in sales & flexible setups
Sales can fit family life when remote and schedule-friendly.
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Home office and async prep make delivery realistic.
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Skill-based work (calls, meetings, follow-ups) adapts to life stages.
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Many return stronger — negotiation at home sharpens work instincts.
Healthy competition without commission-heavy models
OB2B favors motivation without cut-throat commission culture.
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Friendly sprints (e.g., call counts/hour) boost morale.
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Team growth > internal rivalry; focus on sustainable pipelines.
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Stability can increase retention, especially for parents.
CRM over “gut feel” (use both)
Gut feel is a data point — CRM is the system of record.
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Log tone, energy, and rapport alongside facts.
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“No interest” today may be “yes” in weeks — notes guide timing.
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Handoffs improve when you capture how the call felt.
Myth-busting lightning round (7 myths)
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“Women have it easier in cold calling” → False. It’s person, skill, and timing.
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“Emotions don’t belong in sales” → Nuance: be human, not over-personal.
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“No interest ends the conversation” → False. Explore why; try later.
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“Gut feel replaces CRM” → False. Use both; CRM first.
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“Empathy alone sells” → False. It helps; competence closes.
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“Men are direct; women ramble” → Often the reverse; many women are crisply direct.
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“Closing can’t be learned” → False. It’s a trainable, evolving skill.
Key takeaways
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Decision-makers are often male; progress accelerates when women in the chain support the process.
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Empathy + directness is a high-leverage combo — warmth with clear asks.
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Patience and timing often beat pressure in cold calling.
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Boundaries prevent “people pleasing” from derailing outcomes.
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Sales can fit family life — flexibility matters more than stereotypes.
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Healthy competition works without aggressive commission structures.
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CRM first, gut feel second — capture the human context in notes.
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Closing is learnable and improves with feedback and iteration.
Pull quotes
“Empathy amplifies results — it doesn’t replace competence.”
“Direct is kind. Say what you need, then move forward.”
“ ‘No interest’ today isn’t the end — it’s a note for better timing.”
Guest
Nina — Project Manager, OB2B — LinkedIn
Dominka — Host, Dialing Out — LinkedIn
FAQ
Do women have an inherent advantage on cold calls?
Not inherently. Outcomes depend on skill, timing, and preparation. A friendly voice might help at the margin, but consistency and competence drive meetings.
Should I suppress emotions in sales conversations?
Stay human but professional. Early on, keep it light and focused; with long-term partners, authenticity builds trust without oversharing.
How do I handle “no interest”?
Ask why, note context in your CRM, and set a respectful follow-up window. Patience plus timing often reopens the door.
Is closing a fixed talent?
No. It’s a trainable skill that improves through feedback, role-plays, and iteration — without needing manipulation.